In our minister's sermon he talked about how there are 3 important questions about friendship:
1. Why do we need friends?
2. What is friendship?
3. Where do you find the need for friendship?
I will attempt to answer these questions in the next 3 posts, remember that these are my feelings on the subject and are not meant to be taken as anything but that.
Why Do We Need Friends?
This question hit me like a ton of bricks. If I relate this question to my relationship with God it is answered by the fact that friendship/love exists in God/The Trinity. The less you need friends the less you need God.
Now if I relate this question to my everyday life I find it much harder to answer. I need friends for so many different reasons:
- support
- sense of community
- laughter
- sounding boards
- to vent
- to feel loved and understood
While there are probably a million other reasons I need friends these are the most important reasons. My friends offer me support in both good times and bad, meeting friends in a new city (twice now) help to foster a sense of community and home, girl time always comes with laughter which everyone needs! Friends are sounding boards for my parenting, ideas, and all sorts of other things. I vent to my friends about bad days, bad hair, and toddler tantrums. I also need friends that love me and understand me and support me no matter what.
Stay tuned for the next post!
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